HOW TO ENJOY LIFE EVEN IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A LOT OF MONEY
Try asking someone how to enjoy life and most of them will answer money (rich). Yes, indeed having a lot of money can give us freedom which means including happiness itself, but do people who don't have a lot of money mean that they cannot be happy or enjoy life?
Do you feel upset because you don't have a lot of money so you can't enjoy the luxurious / glamorous life that you desire?
Lots of people always run to money or material, both in daily life, romance, and social. Pay attention to people who always say "today is the important thing for money, women will stick to the tajir.", The funny thing is that most people who speak like that are not rich people and whatever we try to direct is always back to money, money and money.
It's natural for people to think like that because they don't have a lot of money (rich) and we also can't impose a point of view on others. If people think money is everything, then whatever we do certainly will not be able to change his mind until the person has as much money as he expected.
Think for a moment, the reality is:
Many famous and rich artists fall into drugs (depression)
Many politicians / governments (who are already rich) are still corrupt
In fact, many husband and wife divorced the person he initially thought was his only happiness
What you think brings happiness is only a momentary illusion because you don't have it yet and when you pursue that illusion you begin to lose everything you already have.
I often see people who are depressed because of their lack of financial condition. Many teenagers are sad just because their parents can't buy the latest gadgets like those of their rich friends, many people are depressed just because they feel they can't celebrate life, partying, going out on a trip abroad, and other lifestyles simply because they don't have a lot of money to spend.
But money is not everything, indeed money can buy happiness if used correctly, but there is far more happiness that money cannot buy.
Here are some ways to enjoy life even if you don't have a lot of money:
1. Learn to accept yourself
One of the best ways to enjoy life is to enjoy yourself. Live your own life, there are 3 important things:
Live in the moment: Live now, this moment, stop worrying about the future, and don't be shackled by life in the past.
Remove yourself from expectations: Don't expect others to do this, don't expect things to be like that, just do what you can change and do now.
Learn to forgive: Forgive other people who have wronged us (but still remember the lesson) and more importantly forgive yourself.
Find peace in yourself first, be thankful for all that you already have, even as simple as that you are still breathing today and are reading this article
Don't compare yourself with other people
Out there there are always people who are richer, more handsome, more popular, and more everything than you. And the worst is when you consider other people happier than you.
Happiness is a matter of decision, your own decision without anyone's intervention, comparing your life with others is the fastest way to ruin your own happiness, so stop thinking about other people's lives, just be happy with your life.
2. Be creative
Being creative doesn't need a lot of money, just pour out what your passion is or something you can create. Even just creating a blog, drawing designs, and other artwork can enrich your life experience and make you even happier.
3. Make other people happy
The best way to make yourself happy is to make people happy (but not everyone). When you make other people happy, you will feel "useful" and this feeling will make you spiritually rich.
Share with others, whatever you can share, give it and don't expect it to return, even just giving your time to listen to confide in a friend / friend is a very meaningful gift.
Build and maintain relationships with the closest people
In the end the real wealth is to have family, friends, and people who care about you, not because you are rich, not because you can do something for them, but because of "your person", build good relationships with other people and take care the relationship because they are the source of your happiness.
Thank people who have been in your life and color your life every day, money can be sought, but pleasant people are very difficult to find.
Be thankful, because actually there are far more reasons for you to be grateful than to be sad. We are all very blessed, decide to be happy, remember that life is a choice.
Choose to be happy now 🙂
Do you feel upset because you don't have a lot of money so you can't enjoy the luxurious / glamorous life that you desire?
Lots of people always run to money or material, both in daily life, romance, and social. Pay attention to people who always say "today is the important thing for money, women will stick to the tajir.", The funny thing is that most people who speak like that are not rich people and whatever we try to direct is always back to money, money and money.
It's natural for people to think like that because they don't have a lot of money (rich) and we also can't impose a point of view on others. If people think money is everything, then whatever we do certainly will not be able to change his mind until the person has as much money as he expected.
Think for a moment, the reality is:
Many famous and rich artists fall into drugs (depression)
Many politicians / governments (who are already rich) are still corrupt
In fact, many husband and wife divorced the person he initially thought was his only happiness
What you think brings happiness is only a momentary illusion because you don't have it yet and when you pursue that illusion you begin to lose everything you already have.
I often see people who are depressed because of their lack of financial condition. Many teenagers are sad just because their parents can't buy the latest gadgets like those of their rich friends, many people are depressed just because they feel they can't celebrate life, partying, going out on a trip abroad, and other lifestyles simply because they don't have a lot of money to spend.
But money is not everything, indeed money can buy happiness if used correctly, but there is far more happiness that money cannot buy.
Here are some ways to enjoy life even if you don't have a lot of money:
1. Learn to accept yourself
One of the best ways to enjoy life is to enjoy yourself. Live your own life, there are 3 important things:
Live in the moment: Live now, this moment, stop worrying about the future, and don't be shackled by life in the past.
Remove yourself from expectations: Don't expect others to do this, don't expect things to be like that, just do what you can change and do now.
Learn to forgive: Forgive other people who have wronged us (but still remember the lesson) and more importantly forgive yourself.
Find peace in yourself first, be thankful for all that you already have, even as simple as that you are still breathing today and are reading this article
Don't compare yourself with other people
Out there there are always people who are richer, more handsome, more popular, and more everything than you. And the worst is when you consider other people happier than you.
Happiness is a matter of decision, your own decision without anyone's intervention, comparing your life with others is the fastest way to ruin your own happiness, so stop thinking about other people's lives, just be happy with your life.
2. Be creative
Being creative doesn't need a lot of money, just pour out what your passion is or something you can create. Even just creating a blog, drawing designs, and other artwork can enrich your life experience and make you even happier.
3. Make other people happy
The best way to make yourself happy is to make people happy (but not everyone). When you make other people happy, you will feel "useful" and this feeling will make you spiritually rich.
Share with others, whatever you can share, give it and don't expect it to return, even just giving your time to listen to confide in a friend / friend is a very meaningful gift.
Build and maintain relationships with the closest people
In the end the real wealth is to have family, friends, and people who care about you, not because you are rich, not because you can do something for them, but because of "your person", build good relationships with other people and take care the relationship because they are the source of your happiness.
Thank people who have been in your life and color your life every day, money can be sought, but pleasant people are very difficult to find.
Be thankful, because actually there are far more reasons for you to be grateful than to be sad. We are all very blessed, decide to be happy, remember that life is a choice.
Choose to be happy now 🙂
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